Oh, I know there must be some out there – somewhere.  One may be just around the corner but I have come across plenty of bad ones.  Not that I’m looking but it’s difficult not to see the drama even if only as a bystander.   I know there are plenty out there and I have known many that were diamonds – cut precise with all the attributes of quality that defines a good man.     If you have a good man – then treat him good.  Allow your man to reach his full potential by praising his many wonderful qualities – by supporting his decisions – by loving him when he’s at his lowest point in life.   You need to strive to be his friend; comforter, teacher and lover – a man won’t stray from a good woman and if he does it wasn’t meant to be.

We bash our men, ridicule and humiliate them.   We tear them down and then we wonder where are they?   Hello! Even a good man can turn bad when he has been torn to fragments.    You may be one of those good women that turned bad after dealing with so many bad men.   That’s life and dreams are only as real as we strive to make them.  

We as women help to build good men – we are the bearers of their birth.   Good men aren’t just born into this world, but they grow into good men by having nurturing loving  mothers.   So remember women play a major role in building good men.  If you have sons – teach them to treat a woman like a diamond by setting an example.   A male that lives in a home riddled with turmoil – witnessing  his mother berate his father ,becomes defensive and tackles each woman he meets as if he was on a football field.  We must take responsibility of  our sons growth by helping to define all the many qualities that women seek in a strong male. 

 Is a good man hard to find – I think not.    There is a woman waiting to catch what you throw away.    You think he’s trash, well it’s possible that she has the erudition  to make that chip of a diamond become a karat.