Many people view sex as a light switch that they turn on and off whenever they choose, they never consider the cost involved until they are presented with a crisis that unfolds in their life and they aren’t prepared for the consequences. Relationships end sometimes leaving you with anger, misery or pain – or sometimes all three.

Some believe that abstinence from sex is only for people who are religious or spiritual but I don’t believe it’s limited to your religious conviction. I see it as a person’s choice, however I believe many are influenced by society norms and face it Americans norms have changed drastically.

You could plow through many partners before finding that gem in the grass. Well you have options – take a test drive on each new model or just use that light switch when you have a fancy to let your physical emotions lock down your self control? You are always in the driver’s seat – it’s your vehicle.